tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5485817584281602467.post4286687649535900687..comments2023-05-26T16:00:00.767+03:00Comments on My Submissive Self: My big mistakesVestrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11724889983016903299noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5485817584281602467.post-8275104742965077512008-04-06T13:26:00.000+03:002008-04-06T13:26:00.000+03:00Yes - I have learned my lesson, and with little co...Yes - I have learned my lesson, and with little consequence. Part of it is clearly dumb luck. But I would like to think that I am not totally lacking in instincts about people. I did select these men after some level of communication.<BR/><BR/>However - I don't do that anymore :)Vestrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11724889983016903299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5485817584281602467.post-33011047417800978462008-04-06T11:14:00.000+03:002008-04-06T11:14:00.000+03:00It sounds like you have been very luck vestri. I ...It sounds like you have been very luck vestri. I know the S-S-C bit can be kind of a drag with some people but I would suggest you follow those tenants, at least until you are more comfortable and established. The cautionary tales were designed for newbies to find their way around.<BR/><BR/>Fortunately, you seem (as reported so far anyway) to have learned a couple lessons without great consequence. However, it seems it was by the luck of the draw that you ended up with some ultimately reasonable men.<BR/><BR/>This realm is populated by a lot of very nice and interesting people, and more than it's share of dangerous people as well.<BR/><BR/>DavidDavidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04943867226010869367noreply@blogger.com