tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5485817584281602467.post2455910486794472064..comments2023-05-26T16:00:00.767+03:00Comments on My Submissive Self: 2-month musings, continuedVestrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11724889983016903299noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5485817584281602467.post-89014554443906929242008-04-16T16:11:00.000+03:002008-04-16T16:11:00.000+03:00Hi Selkie - nice to see you here :)I guess I wasn'...Hi Selkie - nice to see you here :)<BR/><BR/>I guess I wasn't clear what I meant. My Sir would NEVER ignore me, or disregard if I say "no" (I never have had reason to say it, though :) He just doesn't "get" what I really like and don't like. And I'm not even necessarily referring to physical acts. <BR/><BR/>So if I say "I didn't like X or Y", and the next time we meet he says, "We're going to do X and Y" and I'm not excited by it, and then he's disappointed... But I told him I wasn't. That's the type of 'not listening' I meant. He really wants me to be happy. But he sometimes misses the mark.Vestrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11724889983016903299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5485817584281602467.post-27066190469760794022008-04-16T14:40:00.000+03:002008-04-16T14:40:00.000+03:00Hi there ... followed you here through Fetlife .. ...Hi there ... followed you here through Fetlife .. and am just catching up on your musings. Just want to say something quickly here - you mention he doesn't listen even when you say so DIRECTLY - NOT ok - in the Kink world as in the Vanilla world (actually more so in some respects becuase of the increased possiblity of being physically or emotionally or spiritualy damaaged) - NO MEANS NO.<BR/><BR/>A conscientious Dom would NEVER ignore a sub or bottom's no.selkiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01713419374194169822noreply@blogger.com